Happy Holiday's to all of you !


I wanted to share my recent experience with you and  share my thoughts on connecting
our loss of a loved one with a Holiday~

First I want to share my experience with you~My son just got out of the hospital  and I
can happily report is doing well ~He had a heart problem that scared us all to death~I
asked my sister to pray for him and she also went on to Twitter asking for prayer~ To
be honest I felt such peace come over me knowing so many were praying for my son~
    I stayed at the hospital the whole time he was there~one night my husband (passed
4 years ago and about this time of year) came to me to comfort me ~I began to cry,
I was so afraid he was here to get our son , like I have learned  spirits do when it is time
for them to pass over~I can't  put into words the fear I felt~ the last person I wanted to see was my husband here to get our son to go to heaven with him~he assured me that he was not
here to get our son , he was here to help him ~2 days later my son  was better and came home!
I am so grateful
   I wanted to talk about what many do during the Holiday season~me included but getting better
about it~I get emails asking for help to get through the Holiday's and this makes me so sad~
It's when we all miss our lost loved ones the most~ we are entering into my favorite month
of the Year!  JESUS IS THE REASON FOR THE SEASON!
  I lost my husband 4 years ago one week before Christmas~we had no Christmas that year
and since then not much of one but this year I am going to try and change that for my
2 sons sake~
   Many of you do the very same thing~ we  miss them so much during this time of year~
I wish to help as many as I can with this ~I get comfort knowing we can be heard and seen
by them~I know they are in a wonderful place , a place where there is no longer pain,
pain comes in different forms such as psychical pain and emotional pain~it's not just a
place of beauty , it's a place of  great peace and love and  understanding ~It can be comforting
to know theses things~ what happens to us is we are left here on Earth with a huge
whole in our hearts and an emptiness and an overwhelming  loneliness~I wish I knew then
what I know now~I learned what you have to do is PRAY AND ASK GOD TO FILL YOUR
BODY WITH PEACE AND STRENGTH ! ~ this works  When I was in the hospital
crying I was praying that God send healing angels to heal my sons heart and I also
prayed for peace and strength~ its the only way to get through a tough time~God gets
a bad rap when loved ones pass on~the reality is that time to pass on was chosen before they were born and by them..God only knew about it...NOT..causing it~God is there for us to 
help us through it if we allow him to~
    When we learn to focus on our Blessings and all the good things in our life we can
keep them with us in our hearts and move on~Our loved ones don't want us to feel so sad~
They often tell me to give a message of letting go of the pain and learning to live again~
I know if it was me in Heaven, watching down on my family ,it would be so hard to watch
them cry and suffer and be lonely~They want us to be happy
      I hope I have helped someone to get through  this tough time~instead of missing
them talk to them as though they were standing right next to you~most likely they are

            Love and Peace  be with you all this Holiday season !

                                        Gayle

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